Fault?

-Is it my...fault? —But he's an adult -Is it My fault? —You're not the one to change him -Is it still my fault? —HE is your parent -Is it my fault?... —No, listen... -It is my fault?... Or am i the fault? —Stop for a moment.. -No no, she's right.. —Listen..! -If i would join him everything would fine —Stop it and shut the fuck up! -...(speechless) —You can't influence a complete adult who keeps doing the same wrong choices, taking all the same wrong risks knowing beforehand that it's not gonna end up in a right way because it just never does -... But he's still my parent... He's still living this life for the first time and.. —Is it the first or said 10th time this is happening? Have there been situations of a complete quitting? Have you or the rest of the family helped? -..yes —It's not your fault -But he needs help —It is not your fault -But.. —It's ok... It isn't still your fault -(Heavy breathing, looking down and away, admitting) It's not m y fault... Thank you...